I have many friends with this dilemma, believe it or not Unun Brooklyn NY has sizable population of gays and lesbians, and most of them are semi-enclosed. This topic has never been “raised in any talk show, radio show, which I am aware, but these people were born from the old school British Empire of the West Indies / Caribbean parents who prefers to deny that you accept the part of a gay lifestyle. Some Hispanics are also prone to this attitude in their culture.